Horatio And Ailey Blain

1927 - 2000
LocationSandiway
Age73 years
Cause of DeathPneumonia
Date of Birth25/03/1927
Date of Death28/10/2000
Visitors8,961 since 25/03/2008
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Horatio and Ailey Blain
Horatio ( kitch) died on the 17th september 1992 aged 76
Ailey (Lal) died on the 28th October 2000 aged 73
They lived in Sandiway and Had 7 Children
5 Girls and 2 Boys. 11 Grandchildren & 4 Great grand children!
My Mum and Dad they were the most amazing parents !
Everything they did was for us their children !
My dad loved his garden he would spend hours out there tending all his flowers and veg I used to
love helping him !We used to go for walks him mum and ! ! He loved a bet on the horses and going to
Chester Races in april ! The day he died he had been in the garden and came in because he felt tired
a few hours later he had a massive heart attack ! I remember it like yesterday ! And I still cant
believe it !
My mum she was just that a wonderful mum and gran she lived for her family and worshipped my dad !
We did everything together !
When dad died she seem to give up ! But we all tried to make it as normal as possible !I started to
look after her with my sisters help as she became ill !
The day she went in hospital in July 2000 was sheer hell as that was the day she stopped recognising
us ! Which was very hard on all of us
there is no way she would ever do that !
She sufffered in hospital and a nursing home until she passed away.
I will never forgive myself that she went in to a nursing home as I promised that it would never
happen.But we were told it wasnt possible to look after her at home! All I want is my mum and dad
back
My world ended the day I lost my parents as they were and are everything to me ! There isnt an hour
passes that I dont think about them and miss them so much They were and are Simply The Best
Their Eldest Grandson Richard (my nephew)tragically died in October 2007 and my only comfort is that
he is with his gran grandad and aunty
up in heaven and they worshipped the ground that he walked on
and will all be looking after each other. God has taken the Four most Special & Amazing people !


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My Mum

You were my mother and my friend,
Which was unusual.
Somehow our characters still blend:
Your wisdom and my will.
I turned, and you were there for me;
I spoke, you understood.
I felt cared for, but also free;
You loved, and I was good.

I'm fortunate that I was born
To someone just like you;
I love you still. Though you are gone,
You live in what I do.
I love and miss you so much Mum
Love Di xxx

Diane Welch (Daughter) April 4, 2008

I love you both so much

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Time is passing
I know you have gone
The days have stopped moving
As they feel so very long

The grief that I feel
Cannot not be explained
The feeling of loss
And unbelievable pain

The years we shared
The laughter we had
All the good times together
We will always have

I wish you were here
I don’t want you to be gone
To be with you now
I will forever long

I will love you always
And miss you too
I will be thinking of you
Through all that I do
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Diane Welch (daughter) April 3, 2008

Tomorrow never came

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Mum & Dad, if we'd known we would never see you again
We'd have tried to stop you, though in vain
We'd have told you that we loved you more than words could say
If only we had realised this was to be your very last day.

Mum & Dad, there's no-one who can ever take your place
Mum & Dad, there's no-one who has such a handsome face
Sleep tight, dear Mum & Dad and wait for us, in turn to come to you
We'd give anything to hear you laugh like you used to do.

Dad, we remember your song 'I beg your pardon
I never promised you a rose garden
There's gonna be a little rain sometime'
But your smile brought us a brilliant ray of sunshine.

'Tomorrow never comes', is what they say
But we thought you'd see another day
How wrong we were, to think like this
How we wish we could give you one last kiss.

Mum & Dad, may God grant you eternal rest
It's true what they say, that 'He takes only the best'
For you were just a bud, too young to die
But God wanted you for His own rose Garden, way up on high.
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All my love always Cindy xxxxxxxxxx

Cindy Richard Ashbrooks Mum (Daughter) April 3, 2008

I love you both so much

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Time is passing
I know you have gone
The days have stopped moving
As they feel so very long

The grief that I feel
Cannot not be explained
The feeling of loss
And unbelievable pain

The years we shared
The laughter we had
All the good times together
We will always have

I wish you were here
I don’t want you to be gone
To be with you now
I will forever long

I will love you always
And miss you too
I will be thinking of you
Through all that I do
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Diane Welch (daughter) April 3, 2008

Loving you

Not a second passes that I dont think about you !
I look at my little boy and wonder what you would think
of him ! I know he would of loved to have helped you in the garden Dad ! And mum he would of loved helping you bake !
I only wish that you could see him and that he could of seen you both.
He is missing out on two wonderful grandparents.
I love you both so much Love Di xxx

Our lives go on without you
But nothing is the same
We have to hide our heartaches
When someone speaks your name
Sad are the hearts that love you
Silent the tears that fall
Living our hearts without you
Is the hardest part of all
You did so many things for us
Your heart was kind and true
And when we needed someone
We could always count on you
The special years will not return
When we were all together
But with the love within our hearts
You will walk with us forever.

Diane Welch (Daughter) April 2, 2008

losing you

I didn't know what heartache was,
until you went away.
And now my heartache hurts,
A little more each day.
I didn't know what crying was,
until you had to go.
The tears of grief and sadness,
No-one should ever know.
I muddle through as best I can,
until we meet again
You are the best mum & dad
in the world and I love &
miss you both so much
love Di xxxxxx

Diane Welch (Daughter) March 31, 2008

Mum & Dad

Dearest Mum & Dad, we think of you with love
Up on a cloud in the sky above
Re-united with those you held dear
Though you're gone, we feel you near.

If we could turn back the clock of time
To tell you we love you, would be just fine
You were always one of the best
And we love you so much, Mum & Dad

Often, we sit and think of you
And of all you used to try to do
You were so loving and so kind
The dearest Mum and Dad anyone could find.

Goodnight and God bless dearest Mum and Dad
Please look after us as best you can
And when our time comes, we'll come to you
So we'll all be together.
I love you both so much
Love Di xxxx

Diane Welch (Daughter) March 30, 2008

In my mind

Somewhere in my dreams tonight
I'll see you standing there
You look at me with a smile
'Life isn't always fair'

You say you were chosen for his garden
His preciously hand picked bouquet
'God really needed us,
That's why we couldn't stay'

It's said to be that angels
Are sent from above
I've always had my angel
My mum and dad - whose hearts were filled with love

Wherever the ocean meets the sky
There will be memories of you and I
When I look up at that sky so blue
All I see are visions of you

'While there's a heart in me, you'll be a part of me.'
I love you both so much
love Di xxx

Diane Welch (daughter) March 29, 2008

together

There's a hole deep inside me,
And I don't know why it's there.
It could be because you left us,
It could be because you're not there.

You gave to us a light,
That shone above all the rest.
And that light died inside me,
The day we laid you to rest.

I need you more then ever,
I'm lost and can't be found.
I don't know who to confide in,
Now that you're not around.

You used to be my rock,
My soft place in which to fall.
Now that you have left us,
It seems I've lost it all.

If ever there was a person,
Who taught me to believe.
You were that very person,
Who told me not to grieve.

I remember once you told me,
That this day would have to come.
Never did I consider those words,
So tell me where do I run?

It seems that I should call you,
And tell you I'll be over soon.
To read you the new poem I've written,
And hear you brag and croon.

It's only now that I understand,
We can never be ripped apart.
Because no matter how far away you are,
You are with me in my heart.
I love you both so much
love Di xxxxxxx

Diane Welch (daughter) March 28, 2008

No one Knows

No one knows how much it hurts !
To lose my mum and dad it is as though part of me is missing.We went through so much together as a family .
But they always knew the answers ! They cared so much !
I wish so much that you could see my little boy your grandson who is 6 in two weeks ! I know you would of spoilt him rotten!
We talk about you both to him and he has your picture by his bed ! But its hard to explain as it hurts so much.
No one should ever take their mum and dad for granted as they are irreplaceable ! I just want you both to know how much I love and miss you both.
I love you mum and dad
Lots of love Di xxxxxx

Diane Welch (Daughter) March 26, 2008
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